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Keep these 5 areas of your life PRIVATE
You are jeopardising your progress when you publicise this information.
They who can give up essential liberty to obtain a little temporary safety deserve neither liberty nor safety.”
Privacy holds significance in your life both strategically and for cultivating inner peace.
I want to let you in on something special. By the end of this email, you'll discover the power of guarding these 5 private aspects of your life. You'll learn how embracing this privacy can help you maintain your inner peace, protect your relationships, and even positively influence your financial future. Stay tuned.
You shouldn’t be exposing these FIVE areas of your life.
Number One: Past Battles
Your past shapes you, and it's natural to want to share your journey, especially the trials you've endured. But is it necessary to justify yourself to those who've faced their own struggles?
Your character, maturity, wisdom, and perseverance are shaped by challenging moments. However, not everyone needs to visualise your pain. Demonstrate your character through your actions, rather than boasting about your past.
Number Two: Private Goals
Sharing your goals with others can be like handing over unrestricted access to your dreams. The more you reveal, the more potential access points you create. Exposing intricate details of your journey can lead to others inadvertently hindering your progress. After all, nobody knows your path like you do.
Telling others about your goals also leads you into a false sense of achievement. We often get a dopamine hit akin to that of accomplishing a goal when we talk about it. Don’t jump the GUN. Let the desire to tell others about your goals fuel your want to achieve them - that is stored potential, DON’T WASTE IT.
Number Three: Your Happiness
In a world often overshadowed by despair, embracing happiness is revolutionary. But be cautious. Sharing happiness can be inspiring and risky. When people witness your genuine joy, they may react with a wide array of emotions, from admiration to skepticism. Exuding happiness can invite positivity, but it can also attract negativity from embittered individuals.
Number Four: Maintaining Intimacy in Relationships
Airing relationship conflicts to friends or sharing them online can transform personal issues into public spectacles. Effective relationships thrive on communication and intimacy. How much of your relationship should be exposed to the world? It's your choice, but remember that the inner workings of a relationship are best resolved within it.
Number Five: Your Financial Situation
Financial success or hardship is often seen as a marker of success. But sharing too much can invite unwanted interest. Having money can attract those with ulterior motives, while financial struggles can lead to judgment. Maintaining an air of mystery around your financial situation allows you to keep control over how you're perceived.
In summary, act with poise and confidence. The world values appearances, and projecting confidence can convince others that you're in command. However, the best approach is to demonstrate your capabilities through actions, not just words. Will you be the one who leads by example?
Best regards,
Matthew Harris
The Owner of Kaizen Motivation